LMFAOOOO.

Boss.

Quality.

I came across this on my tumblr and I had to share it with you all. It touched my spirit and I hope it does the same for you.

Drake - Marvin's Room (Video)

Drake ~ Marvins Room (Official Video) from OctobersVeryOwn on Vimeo.

This video made me feel drunk....but I like it. One of the things i'll always respect about Drake's music is his honesty. 


His sophomore album titled "Take Care" is set to be released on Oct. 24th. Show support for truly good music.

My top 5 bad man top shotta movies.........

I'd like to introduce you all to the man in me. These are my top 5 bad ass movies, if I didn't say "bloodclatte" at least 3 times watching each of these movies, they wouldn't be on the list. Check them out, I promise you won't be disappointed.

#5: Saw 1,2, and 3.

I stopped at three because I couldn't take that shit anymore.


#4: The grudge:

Any movie that had me sleeping in my mom's room for over a month after I watched it deserves to be on this list.


#3: Scarface

I went years without watching this simply because I didn't really care to, but once I finally did, "Manolo, shoot that piece of shit" has become a part of my vocabulary. 


#2: IP Man

I actually discovered this gem at work, my co-workers are all guys except for one other female and our manager........that should explain things. This is a bad rass kung fu movie.


# 1: City of God and Shottas

I honestly couldn't choose. My number one was Shottas until I saw City of God and fell in love with Benny.......Biggs is still my boo though. You're not a shotta if you can't appreciate the truly gangsta shit that these movies contain. They're half the reason why I laugh at some of these pussies who all of a sudden grew some nuts when they got their first gun, but who's hands shake when real G's run up on them or the police start to sweat them. 

And there you have it. If you know any good top shotta movies that didn't make the list, e-mail them to me @ kchantal@tmo.blackberry.net.  

P.S.: The hills have eyes would have been on here if I had the stomach to get through the first ten minutes.

Kourtney Kardashian

I love this outfit...

Great look for the summer.

Fina-fxking-lly

Damn daddy.......

Jhene Aiko

I was sitting around browsing the internet and I stumbled across Jhene Aiko, an underground artist, whom I've never heard of before. I did a bit of research and checked out her free mixtape Sailing Souls. Clearly I'm a couple months late but it's new to me. So far I do enjoy. While she can't "SANG" she does have an angelic voice which reminds me of a Cassie or an early Aaliyah. My favorite so far are "Sailing Not Selling" featuring Mr. West, "Hoe" featuring Miguel (& Gucci Mane which I could definitelty live without his verse), and "Mr. Popular". Hope you enjoy.

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her body is the business.

**looking for a personal trainer now

untitled.

I have been heartbroken.

I have worked my ass off just to hand my last dime over to people I will never meet.

I have been in the middle of drama.

I have been accused of embarrassing things.

I have had my feelings hurt by "hating ass bitches".

I have gained weight. I have lost weight.

I have been abused. mentally & physically.

I have been taken for granted.

I have been called the worst names by my own mother and father.

I have been judgmental. I have been judged.

I have gotten drunk and did things I regretted the next morning.

I have been threatened. I have made threats.

I have struggled financially.

I have been on top of the world & I have fallen off.

I have taken a bad boyfriend back.

I have been the victim of domestic violence.

I have been violent.

I have been spiteful.

I have sinned. Repented. Then sinned again.

I have been insecure. I have been secure.

I have been through a lot (this list could be so long) and so has everyone else in the world. everyone has a story. Everyone has a struggle. Everyone has a feelings whether they show it or not. Everyone is a product of their environment in some shape or form. Having a little compassion, respect, and decency could change someones life for the better. They want us to not give a fuck and only care about money, bitches, and other materialistic bullshit and forget our sole purpose. God put us here for a reason and it is to embrace each other, learn from one another, and teach each other valuable life lessons. When you are alone in your room thinking about all your painful memories that have caused you to be miserable, depressed, and/or crying remember you are not alone. Learn to embrace your life lessons because YOU will accomplish LIFE!

"You can't appreciate your future if you don't appreciate your past" -me.

Compliments Gone Wrong..

James Fauntleroy is a grammy award winning songwriter with a lot of hit songs under his belt.

now apparently compliments are "subliminal disses" because...


After these tweets we can guess where it went. DRAMA!

My thing is social networking has gotten so bad that you cannot even compliment someone without it escualting or being mistaken as "underhanded comments". Twitter, Facebook, and other sites have become an outlet for everyday people and celebrities (so-called "role models") to display their childish behavior. The subliminal disses and shit talking has reached an all time high and must be STOPPED! If you are not going to spread knowledge or creative thoughts (like this blog) please delete your shit!

Ladies and Gentlemen: Text, Email, and other cyber forms of communication has no emotion. It leaves one to guess your emotion that is why almost all conversations should be discussed via talking (mouth conversation lol) seriously. Even Compliments.

hmmm... just realized its been a year and two months...rip to my twitter page long gone..i wish it was forgotten.

Novacane - Frank Ocean

New video from my husband the best artist in the world in my book.



"Novacane, baby, baby 
Novacane, baby I want you
Fuck me good, fuck me long, fuck me numb
Love me now, when I'm gone, love me none
Love me none, love me none, numb, numb, numb, numb......"




*sighs* Love him.

Instructional video.

Warning: This video contains explicit material and is not suitable for people under the age of 18 or sexually frustrated or deprived people. You have been warned.

Some might call it whorish.......



..............I call it art.

Fellas, don't say I never gave y'all nothin.

Ladies............don't say I never gave y'all nothin.

The Weeknd - Birds (Pt. 1)

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Uplifting words....

My bro Marc-lee wrote this and I found it so uplifting that I had to share it with you......

♥

How you doing, it’s just you, me and this hours on end ink pen caressing these

every lines.

Let me free my mind from this world and take my soul on a journey to a world some

wish to grind.

Like a lullaby, me being pleasured with old music playing in the background wishing my life’s favorite utopia would soon be passing by grabbing and sweeping me off my familiar grounds, into distinct worlds with places where love never runs dry.

Kill the buzz of pessimism helping my soul and spirit fly high. Sore me in non-polluted air that I can look down at a life full of pleasing trials which I can’t wait to try.

Create a trail of roads thru my imagination where I’ll send myself surfing into different destinations and exploring never ending positive interventions. 

Striving to sacrifice my present life styles to painting a getaway land easily accessed with just a thought of turmoil negativity. A world where the love I only wished to have existed is vivid and doesn’t go extinct. Like Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, I and my loved one’s hearts are matched even.

Can you see it….

Soothing thoughts of the great life, blowing times that really don’t exist so there is no rush on life to be spent in heavenly sinless days. So for my heart, happiness will always persist.

I can't merely resist the thoughts of that special gift I wished life would give... My Own Special Utopia

This Is The Face....

... I make after I lose 2 million dollars betting on Miami Heat.

I truly dislike band wagoners (*cough Baby & Wayne)!

true shit

thats why I only worship God.

oh i disagree to an extent about the crazy part.

Find me this young man.....

I'm all for respecting your elders, but if that was me he would have gotten his ass whooped at 5:57. I'm surprised the young man lasted that long...........

Social Networking without the Internet...

this is the reality of social networking...pathetic isn't it?

luckily I know all of my facebook friends personally.

Lawd Jesus.

I'd kick Bishop Eddie Long in his jaw with these the first chance I got...........

Knowing How to Downgrade.

Boy meets girl. Girl has "swag". Boy likes girl. Girl likes boy. Girl likes his money more. Boy and Girl hook up and the rest is well...history.

Perfect example is the Kanye, Amber Rose, Wiz Khalifa story. Now I don't know the details because I am not friends with either party. One can only use common sense from the little details that have been publicly stated.

Amber, a stripper since the age of 15, met Kanye West at a video shoot (the video never premiered -_-). I can only imagine she was trying to get it how she lived because the stripper profession is a world in itself...very classless and disturbing. I mean what stripper doesn't want to be saved? Exactly. So Amber was put into the situation of being saved..she dropped her lesbo lover and got with Kanye's Workout Plan. Do I blame her..HELL FUCKING NO! He took her from Ramen Noodles to the finest cuisine in the world. He took her from your basic forver 21 garments (i do still like forever 21) to Gucci, Chanel, Prada, Tom Ford .. I mean the list could go on and on. She went from the hood of Philly to travelling the world....now do you own a passport? chances are unlikely. She completely upgraded and do I believe there was love there.. yes I do because money doesn't make you wet...I mean she was a stripper where money was in her face constantly...there had to be something more...maybe the dick? or the personality? who knows?

Now we all know the Kanye ship sailed..do you really think she wanted to go back to philly, shake her ass for 10 bucks, and hear the other freak bitches in the strip club talk shit because she got saved and "fucked it up"..HELL NO! She settled for the downgrade. Wiz Khalifa, an aspiring rapper who been out since 2007/2008 (that's when I first got put on to him), who was just a regular nigga who could rap (everyone can rap these days -_-). His Black and Yellow was a hit and the endorsements, radio play, and such took off..which means more bread! Now Amber being smart cuffed him quick...hmmm I wonder whats her secret? It cannot be the bald head so I'm gonna assume its the pussy and the sweet talk (ladies you have to know how to sweet talk..not text).

The moral is you have to know how to downgrade ladies. Will Wiz be as big as Kanye West? Never, nuh huh, not happening! But is he better then your local "drug dealer" in the club spending all his money on bottles, strippers, and freak hoes but doesn't own a house? HELL YES! Wiz has some pull, not nowhere near Kanyes but he owns a face card. He is still in the limelight which ultimately keeps Amber in the limelight. She will still get VIP, fans, magazine covers, Hosting Events...and if she is smart like I suspect she is saving all that money and spending his.. just in case she has to go back to Philly..which i doubt. Do I see wedding bells for them no because like many artists Wiz is just a fad and he will indeed fade...and by his raps I can tell he has not employed someone to look after his finances. So with that being said you have to downgrade smart and know when to get the fuck on. You can aim high after your last but the chances of that happening is slim to none. Don't get me wrong upgrading is easy but upgrading right after your Top A is kind of hard. I mean look at J.Lo she started with a waiter, then went to Diddy, then bounced to a backup dancer, then to Ben Affleck, now she's married to a mediocre celebrity, Marc Anthony. You cannot go from an IPhone to owning that blue Nokia (you know which one I'm referring to)..You want to go from an IPhone to a Blackberry and hopefully if you know how to play "The Game" go back to an Iphone.

Regardless your opinion of Amber Rose or your personal situation in the game..one thing you cannot say is "She's Dumb" because she isn't. She is still in the media and you are still hearing about her and that's the way she wants it. The game is dirty so if your going to play you better make your next move your best move cause you would hate to be the chick who walks by a punch of chicks whispering, "Remember when she used to be the shit..old news having hoe." I can only imagine that it would sting..HARD!

Drake - Marvin's Room

Musically, he never disappoints me...............ever.
Noah Shebib, you fuckin' legend you.


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Sexing & Fucking the Potential..

..there is a huge difference & they should be practiced at appropriate times only.

First: This topic is for the people who has someone "special" in their lives and are thinking about taking it home.

Whats the difference? Sexing involves the basic positions only. Examples: Missionary or Cowgirl. Fucking is all of the freaky stuff. Examples: 69, Reverse Cowgirl, Oral, etc. Now I for one do not have a three, six, or nine month rule. I believe when the time is right, its right! However, I have a sex and fuck rule. When you take it there for the first few times you should only have basic sex. I say this because you do not want to scare your potential away. You don't want to whip out your special tongue trick the first night because he will think "how many dudes she tongued like this?", especially if you do it right! The things I do in the bedroom are way better then when I first started sexing and this came from experience, trial and error, and coaching. No matter what your guy count is you don't want him thinking "man I can't wife her she might be a hoe", "she a freak", or any other foolish things they assume. You want him to view you as an angel, god gifts to man, the perfect girl, the one he wants to put a ring on (even if you don't want a ring) not the girl he really liked then fucked and never called again after THE first time. Now after the first few sex sessions (ranges from 3-10) you can now fuck ladies. I personally think you should ease into the freakiness. I personally did with my guy (we have been down for almost 6 years) and I was a virgin i.e. inexperienced. You can show him that he doesn't have to go anywhere when it comes to the sex department and lets be honest that is one of the most important parts of a relationship after trust and honesty/communication. After you guys are comfortable and been seeing each other for a while you should discuss new things you want to try whether its anal, beads, dildos, or whatever suits you to build a healthy sex life. Sex is a relationship in itself and it can go right or terribly wrong. We already know what happens when it goes wrong.. you beefing with big booty kesha down the street with the 3 kids who can suck a mean dick! Do not be shy and make your guy feel comfortable so it will not be one of those taboo situations.

P.S. we have all had our slip ups (maybe) so this is your time to make it right and keep that potential :)

Ri Ri got dat Bella Swan........

.............obviously.

Breaking dawn........damn Edward.

I hear twilight nerds screaming all over the world right now, or maybe it's just me. The official soft porn flick trailer for the fourth movie in the twilight series is out and can you say sex-u-al? Giiirrrrlll, ask me what I saw after Edward broke the headboard..........not a damn thing. Bella must have that wet wet tight tight for him to pull that shit off, I see you girl.  I'm so excited to see this movie because I am an avid supporter of the books and I actually love the movies too.....even though I like the books better. The movie will be in theaters on November 18th, please go check it out, you will not be sorry. :-)

We don't believe you Kimberly....you need more people.

I honestly didn't even want to do this post because it's so negative and I didn't want to bring that shit here, but I had to say this because Kim is so ridiculous. I just give my opinions on things and that's just what it is, my opinion, so don't get all butt hurt about what I say.


Unless you've been living under a rock for the past few weeks, you've more than likely heard that Kim Kardashian is engaged. I'm honestly not trying to be a bitch about things, but come. the. fuck. on. There are times when I dislike Kim Kardashian, it intensifies then mellows then intensifies again then....you get the picture. Honestly, I don't see them making it to the wedding and if they do, I give it about a year.....actually throw in another year because dat ass..........damn. I think in the back of Kim's mind, she knows this is a mistake, but her love of attention and her jealousy of Khloe's marriage and Kourtney's new little family refuses to let her see reason. I can tell just from watching the previews of Keeping up with the Kardashians that homie is a fluke........but it'll be a cold day in hell when Kim learns that fame isn't her friend. Then again, I could be wrong.......maybe Kim is just a nice, sweet, innocent woman looking for love........ -___- right......oh but she will learn..........she will learn.

If in fact she is just doing this for money, I say get it girl *finger snaps*......hustle the industry just like they hustled you.

The importance of being earnest........like Kid Cudi.

"Im reading this write up in Ebony on me and i just cant tell if its love or hate. Hmmm, my brain is warming up to decide if i should diss them or ignore it as ignorance. I guess ill just say this. Dear Ebony, i wouldve been fine off your lil list. Next time u wanna write about me, i guess dont! Id prefer that when my mom, a true fan of your magazine picks up an issue, she doesnt have to read some wack ass write up about her sons music, disrespecting his art one minute and then tryna redeem yourselves with good comments all in the same paragraph. Show love all the way or dont mention me. I know you have to cause im someone whos hard to ignore in this business but like i said, if this is the type of write im going to get from a magazine thats suppose to praise African Americans who do amazing things, i dont wanna be involved or a part of it. MAYBE you should take advice from the song MAYBE you hate so much, maybe you need not worry bout me!" 
- via Cudlife





I have alot of respect for honest artists. It's difficult to stay honest in the entertainment business, with the spotlight on you and so many people watching and waiting for you to fuck up, that shit takes courage. So many people start out true to their feelings then get caught up in that whole hollywood bullshit (i.e. Wiz Khalifa.......yes, Rolling Papers was some old label influenced bullshit) and they let that influence not only their music, but also their soul and I dislike that shit .I love Kid Cudi even more for saying what he said because that shit is the truth. You tell em baby and keep telling them...............bitches.



Credits: Cudlife.tumblr.com (Kid Cudi's personal tumblr)

Man down - Rihanna

Girl you is so fine....
You damn sho is one of a kind....
You inspired me to find...
That ratchet ass line in my mind....

Happy 85th b-day Marilyn

Norma Jeane baby, we miss you, we need more like you because these bitches just don't get it.

Marilyn Monroe

One of the baddest women in history, gone but never forgotten.......ever.

Please, no story telling to others......

My topic for today is kissing and telling. First of all, I want all my potential dating prospects to know that the FASTEST way to get me to drop you is kissing and telling, I absolutely HATE that shit. This is also one of the fastest ways to separate the boys from the men. I grew up around nothing but boys, there might have been sprinkles of girls in my life now and then, but up until I came to america I was friends with mostly boys. One of the wisest things i've ever done in life is to have older male friends at a young age. Oh you thought I kept little boy friends? LMFAO, no silly. I always hated boys my age because after hearing real shit from grown men the ones my age seem like such idiots to me and that is something that still happens to this day. I despise a lot of guys my age because I don't know what happened to my generation but let's just say these little boys are far too easily influenced in my opinion........but that is another story for another time.

I remember what made me realize the true consequences of kissing and telling. I was in the 9th grade and the love bug bit me in the ass............hard. I can honestly say that to this day i've never felt anything close to what I felt for......let's call him Jim (I don't like to name drop). Me and him were going out and we made out(shut up, I was 14) and someone else who was friends with us and who was there when it happened came back to school and told everybody, Jim thought it was me and straight ignored me for months, mind you I was head over heels for this guys so it really hurt me and it's something I still remember. After I had learned (from someone else) why he was mad at me, I didn't try to tell him the truth.......I ignored his ass right back. It's crazy because I still do that shit to this day and I've become quite good at it, sometimes it's almost like they're really invisible. I was pissed because I learned two things at the tender age of 14, 1) guys HATE it when the ones they're with kiss and tell and 2) guys are real idiots. Even though I didn't do it, the very insinuation that I did it was enough for him to go from liking me to utterly disliking me and at that age that shit seemed really crazy to me and I didn't understand it, but now I understand why he was so pissed. You see, i've had it done to me and to this day, I can't even really look the guy's picture on facebook who kissed and told without hoping that he steps on a land mine. Cruel, vindictive? I know right, but it's the truth......that's how much I dislike it.

First of all, if me and you are doing whatever we're doing, it's OUR BUSINESS. Why do other people have to know what we did? What, you think that by telling everyone it will enlarge your dick or something? If God didn't bless you with it then bragging to everybody about what we did will do nothing to help you sweety. Be a man and keep your fucking mouth shut. I was pissed that he told what we did, and I was even more pissed because he said my name and then the story was transformed into this huge ass lie by the time it got back to me(like telephone, that game we used to play in kindergarten) and i'm like, you're such a bitch. I expect things like that from women but when men do it, it throws me off and honestly it disappoints me. I hate when men act like they have a vagina.

When women do it, it's expected but it's still not acceptable. Don't put all your business out on front street and get all surprised when those same bitches throw that shit back in your face. There was a time when I had like 4 or five close friends that I told things like that to, let's just say that was another lesson that life taught me. I thought it was ok because these were girls I called best friends and I wasn't telling everybody, but honey when you tell your business to a bitch you might as well be telling everybody. Now, there are two people who really know the explicit details of my sex life and that's Valerie(my best friend, and there are a lot of things that I don't tell even her) and the person i'm fuc..........being intimate with.

When we're young we do stupid things and I am no exception. What I can say is that I walked out of those situations with a HUGE lesson learned and a reinforced dislike for anyone who kisses and tells. Men, please be a man about your shit and keep your mouth shut, and if you can't suppress the bitch in you enough not to tell everybody please keep these poor ladies' names out of your sordid sex tales , and women please don't go telling people your business, it's like  you're giving them the tools to destroy your reputation.